Benefits of Whole Life Counseling sessions:

I offer Whole Life support addressing all areas of life including spirituality, work/career, relationship/relating and assist you in finding your own answers to your existential life questions.

My inclusion oriented and deeply caring counseling nurtures your wholeness by healing separation, both within and without. My profound holding and listening will allow you to fully experience all of your human nature including the more difficult aspects. My suggestions and guidance will help you become aware of your conditioned patterns and you will experience the spaciousness and transformative power of consciousness in the midst of your distress.

Some of the benefits of Whole Life counseling are:

  • Insight into your life's meaning and purpose
  • Increased confidence and trust in Being
  • Increased sense of wellness and presence
  • Greater capacity to face your life's challenges
  • Greater capacity for nourishing relationships
  • Transmission of awakened associated embodied consciousness leading to your own embodied awakening

My husband Max and I offer Waking Down In Mutuality sittings and residential retreats in Ashland, OR. Contact me for more information.

 

Appreciations

Appreciations
From Carol Ovenburg, Ashland, Oregon

The day I Met Tatini was the day the melody of a song broke the surface of my psyche and said, "Yes, she's the one." A song that sings, "When the student is ready, the teacher will come." Her melodious voice, the sweetness in her smile, the sparkle in her eyes and her loving heart sang to me of a woman with the capacity to hold and help me through the rot and transform my suffering into my second birth. Like a gentle gardener, Tatini helped me identify the weeds from the blooms and till the earth of my heart to beat with a new rhytm, a seamless pulse with all things living.

From Dr. Stephen M. Marcus (Ph.D.), Berlin, Germany

I felt immediately at home with Tatini Goler's presentation of Waking Down in Mutuality - my first exposure to this work. There was at once a comfortable, familiar and safe context in which to explore so much which I had already learned about myself, and at the same time an opportunity to open to a new way of looking - and with it an inner knowing that fully leaning in to that would change everything.
Despite finding myself the only newcomer in the intensive part of the weekend, Tatini offered a space in which I could fully include myself and learn something new about myself from each one present.
Thank you Tatini for a truly remarkable experience, and opening the gateway to deepening into this path.

From Linda Groves-Bonder, Senior teacher and Co-founder of "Waking Down in Mutuality" as well as the "The White-Hot Way":

I have had the great pleasure to assist Tatini in her awakening process and co-teach with her as she has explored being a mentor in the WD in Mutuality work. She has the natural ability to hold an individual and listen deeply to their whole being communications. This ability has helped many in their own life process. I am very impressed and moved by how real and authentic this amazing being is. I am so proud to say that I am her friend and mutual participant in this amazing dance of awakening.

From Susan, Sydney, Australia:

I was suffering from chronic exhaustion due to habitual overwork, and was at the end of my second month of chronic insomnia. My husband and I were living in separate rooms and I felt a kind of long term, controlled despair. Going into Tatini’s “Experiencing Waking Down in Mutuality” workshop in August 2010 in the Blue Mountains, Australia, I felt my normal distrust of groups. But as Tatini skillfully moved us from group discussion, to teaching, to a walk outside in the bush, to eye gazing, to participant reflection, I began to unwind, especially in the eye gazing. I wondered if something significant had begun, but I wasn't going to hold my breath about my life changing. As the workshop progressed to the second day, Tatini gently moved the group to the next level of reflection, challenge and acceptance. Now, two months post workshop, I know something significant started in Tatini's workshop.  Within weeks I was able to sleep, was back with my husband and was experiencing my feelings in a different way; in a way where there was less anxiety about having the feeling itself.  I have such a respect for our mutual humanness and feel that another big shift for me has occurred, as I am no longer so isolated from others. I now have regular sessions with Tatini and am wonderfully impacted by them. 

From Natalie Lascelles, Blue Mountains, Australia:

Tatini’s “Experience Waking Down in Mutuality” workshop was deeply nurturing and healing. Tatini held the space with deep compassion, presence and a profound transmission. I now have a deep embodied sense of how to more effortlessly  hold myself with tenderness and compassion – this feels like a big shift and as a result I am finding it so much easier to be my fully human self in relationship with others.

From Chris Stewart, Australia:

When I met Tatini I didn't expect her to be much of a teacher - a highly energetic yet normal looking German American middle aged lady who I'd more likely share a drink and joke with.  Boy, did I get a surprise - and a drink and a joke!  Tatini is one of the most approachable, relaxed and playful transmitters of embodied non-dual awakening I have ever met.  With a direct but light touch she has communicated the Heart to me in ways that.... well, I'm speechless.  I'm happier, lighter and more 'here.'  What more can I say about the Mysterious Joy that Tatini so thoroughly embodies and can directly invite you into?

From Ben Maron, Australia:

At the beginning of the workshop I was unsure what to expect and a little tentative.  By the end of the two days spent with Tatini as the facilitator/teacher I felt deeply met, in particular by her.  I found her deeply honest in her relations, with a degree of humility that made her easy to approach.  Even when people had challenging material to deal with she was able to guide individuals and the group skillfully.  Overall the time spent with Tatini was heart warming and nurturing.

From Berenike, Germany:

It's difficult to describe the role of a spiritual teacher - it's something between a wise man or woman, a parent, a friend and a guide with some other indefinable ingredients in the midst of it. Of course, every teacher adds his or her own unique flavor to this role. From my point of view, Tatini's flavor is a mix of bravery, honesty and realness, conscious groundedness and deep embodiment, a strong holding ability, a wide cultural background and, above all, a truly big heart. Needless to say, I'm immensely grateful to have found her and to be her student and friend. Since there's only so much words can tell you about a person, why not give it a go and see for yourself? Tatini might just be the sort of teacher you've been waiting for all along.

From Chiara Guerrieri, Yoga Teacher, CMT, Seattle:

Tatini's cultural background and broad spiritual frame of reference gives me the sense that she knows where I am coming from spiritually, physically and emotionally. With her sensitivity to who I am, her passion for truth and her willingness to take a risk in pointing out deep seated behavior patterns, Tatini's counseling has helped me to recognize and be able to ask for what I want and need, especially in the area of intimate relationship. I have learnt to become more aware of my boundaries and am able to take better care of myself as I am changing and becoming more of who I am. 

From Shanti, Australia:

Being true (authentic) and truly being with another person, supporting him or her as they journey on their path of investigation is not within everyone’s scope or skill.  It is a gift, a wonderful thing; mutuality at its zenith!  I am so glad to have contacted Tatini, to know & experience her holding.  2009 has shaped up to be a momentous year for me and what a process I’ve unfolded!
I want to thank Tatini from the core of my being for reflecting back appropriately, for bringing me back when I wandered, for the gazing (via Skype)—for everything.
With all blessings, Shanti in Australia

From Tom Hoebel, Westminster, Colorado:

Tatini has been the space for me to be me without a facade and for me to see me as I am. She has given me the green light to show up as I am and helped me accept the parts of myself I repressed or didn't know existed.

From Calista Morrill, Lyons, Colorado:

Tatini's depth of Heart Being expresses to me an extraordinary and irresistible invitation to Be that which I already am. Her soft, gentle and unthreatening expressions of wisdom and her holding of "all of who I am" offer the possibilities of recognizing and loving myself as I am, a nearly impossible accomplishment so it seemed. Tatini's counseling has helped accelerate a process of deep healing that I knew was possible and had never found before.

From Marilyn Kush, Portland, Oregon:

With incredible sensitivity and caring, coupled with fierce determination and refined intuition, Tatini has helped me immensely in the awakening process in my life's journey. Thank you for your extraordinary Heart, which you share with utmost warmth and generosity. Thank you for your listening. You probe, provoke, tune in and land right smack at what's lurking behind the words, thoughts and feelings. I'm at awe at the simplicity and elegance of the process. Thank you for always speaking the Truth. It comforts, accepts and understands. But also, and more importantly, it challenges and shows me myself and/as My Self; always amazingly to the point and straight to the Heart. It is a privilege and a joy to know you, Tatini. You are an amazing and brilliant Being and friend.